Consent Conversations

Since 2020, I have been engaging in conversations around consent, boundaries, decolonization of the body, resilience, social justice, pleasure and the Wheel of Consent® relational framework with colleagues and fellow consent, intimacy and sexuality educators and coaches on Instagram livestreams on @thewheelofconsent account and @consentisapractice account. 

Consent, Agency and Building Courage

with Carmen Leilani and Marcia Baczynski

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The Wheel of Consent® and Parts Work: Practicing Self-Consent

with Carmen Leilani and Rupert James Alison

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Tools for Resilience: The Wheel of Consent® and TRE

with Carmen Leilani and Robyn Dalzen

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50 SHADES OF NO: Exploring what it means to say and hear a no

with Carmen Leilani and Jax

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Cultivating Community for Resilience

with Carmen Leilani and Puma Höflich

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A Living Framework: Notes on the Wheel of Consent

with Carmen Leilani and Dr. Betty Martin

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Listening Turns: The Gift of Presence

with Carmen Leilani and Helena de Felice

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Cultivating Community for Resilience

with Carmen Leilani and Puma Höflich

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Building a Somatic Movement Library

with Carmen Leilani and Sasha Lasdon

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What is Like A Pro: The Wheel of Consent for Professionals?

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

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Like A Pro: The Wheel of Consent for Professionals | A Training for BIPOC Community

with Carmen Leilani, Yetunde J. O., Jax and René Rivera

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Consent & the Carceral State

with Carmen Leilani and René Rivera

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Solidarity and Sovereignty

with Carmen Leilani and Sasha Lasdon

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Rest, Resilience and Resourcing

with Carmen Leilani and Robyn Dalzen

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The Art of Receiving and Giving: Holiday Edition

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

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Domain, Boundary and Limits

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

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Consent Practices for Belonging & Connection

with Carmen Leilani and Puma Höflich

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Expanding Awareness of Choice

with Carmen Leilani & Marcia Baczynski

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Reclaiming Agency

with Carmen Leilani & Stella Topaz

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The Least Useful Consent Question Ever

with Carmen Leilani & Marcia Baczynski

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The Privilege and Power of Choice

with Carmen Leilani and Adam Bee

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The Difference between Serving and Taking

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

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The Power of the Pause


with Carmen Leilani and Stella Topaz

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The Difference between Allowing and Accepting

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

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Consent will not save you

with Carmen Leilani and Marcia Baczynski

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A Luxurious No: A Conversation About Identity and Access to No

with Carmen Leilani and Tunde JO

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Consent Skills for Cuddle Events

with Carmen Leilani and Jax Wren

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Embodied Consent for Liberation

with Carmen Leilani and Dame Sadie

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Consent Practices for Psychotherapists

with Carmen Leilani and Fiona O’Farrell

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Embodying Consent & Ancestral Reconnection

with Carmen Leilani and Helena De Felice

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The Wheel of Consent on the Road! Live from Atlanta

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

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Reclaiming Body Sovereignty after Sexual Assault

with Carmen Leilani and Helena De Felice

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Consent: One Word, 6 Meanings

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

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Reclaiming Body Sovereignty from Religious Trauma

with Carmen Leilani and Madazon Can-Can

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Affinity Groups: How we show up differently in BIPOC spaces

with Carmen Leilani and Max Pearl

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Consent for Besties: Practices to Deepen Friendship

with Carmen Leilani and Marcia Baczynski

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The Difference between Touch & Sex

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

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Defining Relationship Agreements

with Carmen Leilani and Robyn Dalzen

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The Art of Receiving and Giving

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

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Communication tips for Boundaries & Desires

with Carmen Leilani and Marcia Baczynski

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Teaching Consent in Schools to Teens

with Carmen Leilani and Gráinne Carr

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Consent and Radical Mental Health First Aid

with Carmen Leilani, Ndeye Oumou Sylla and Betty Martin

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Consent & Radical Self-Reliance

with Carmen Leilani and Robyn Dalzen

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Bringing the Wheel of Consent into the Workplace

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

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M4M: Touch, Vulnerability and Consent

with Carmen Leilani, JoJo Bear and Michael Dresser

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Boundaries & The Power of Saying No

with Carmen Leilani and Marcia Baczynski

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Learning to Touch with Intention

with Betty Martin and Carmen Leilani

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Where the Wheel of Consent doesn’t work

with Carmen Leilani and Sasha Lasdon

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The Difference between Desires and Preferences

with Carmen Leilani and Marcia Baczynski

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Desire Smuggling

with Carmen Leilani and Marcia Baczynski

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Consent & Regenerative Business Practices

with Carmen Leilani and Karryn Olson

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Consent Practices for Casual Dating/Hookups

with Carmen Leilani and JoJo Bear

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Consent Education for Diverse Communities

with Carmen Leilani and Max Pearl

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Consent & The Nervous System

with Carmen Leilani and Robyn Dalzen

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Taking, with Integrity 

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

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What Your Nanay didn’t teach you about pleasure, sex and consent 

with Carmen Leilani and Goddess Cecilia

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Consent Practices for Businesses and Organizations

with Carmen Leilani and Helena De Felice

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Renegotiating Consent & Boundary Agreements

with Carmen Leilani and Marcia Baczynski

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Power, Pleasure and Consent 

with Carmen Leilani and Adam Bee

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Embodiment as a Fundamental Consent Practice

with Carmen Leilani and Robyn Dalzen

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The 3 Minute Game is the New 7 Minutes in Heaven

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

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Boundaries and this F**cking Pandemic

with Carmen Leilani and Marcia Baczynski

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Exploring the Pleasure of Boundaries

with Carmen Leilani and Robyn Dalzen

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Embodied Decisions: Trusting the Wisdom in Your Body

with Carmen Leilani and Robyn Dalzen

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Beyond Burnout: Resources for Replenishing Resilience

with Carmen Leilani and Robyn Dalzen

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Creating Consent Culture

with Carmen Leilani, Betty Martin and Marcia Baczynski

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The Magic Question: Who is it for?

with Carmen Leilani, Robyn Dalzen and Betty Martin

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Learning to Touch Again in a Post-Pandemic World

with Carmen Leilani, Robyn Dalzen and Betty Martin

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Reorienting to touch, pleasure and boundaries after lockdown 

with Carmen Leilani, Robyn Dalzen and Betty Martin

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Distinctions around Definitions of Consent

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

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Applying the Wheel of Consent to Relationships

with Carmen Leilani and Betty Martin

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